Saturday, November 3, 2012

Your Wish Is My Command!!!


While I was in Bangalore, I watched a documentary which was based on the novel The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. When I was in 12th grade I watched it at my friend’s place but that time I never took it seriously and so I forgot what it was all about. But when I watched it again in the middle of night with full consciousness I realized it was worth it. Not that I was influenced by it, but it has happened with me many a times in my life. After watching the documentary, I went into my flashback right from the beginning from where I remember to the present time and I realized it has happened with me so many times. Doesn’t matter whether it was a positive outcome or the negative consequence, it actually happened with me. I went to the terrace, it was quiet cold. I looked at the sky and thought, this was released long back still I saw it after such a long time, that means there must be more people who are not aware of this fact and who possibly are most of them don’t give a damn about it. So I decided to write about it and post on my blog, so that the people who are interested could read and there is every chance that their life may change if and only if they really work over it.

The documentary says that this world is made up of energy, and as we all know the properties of energy: it can neither be created nor destroyed, though it can change its state. So this world is made up of energy and each and every single creature existing has a bit of the same energy in it. That means even we are made up of energy. And the most important fact that there is a higher power above us who controls everything, who balances the equilibrium of the universe. People have named that higher power as God; Allah; Jesus; Guru. But we can conclude that the energy which creates the universe is nothing but God, which can never be created nor destroyed and it changes its state so we have different God names for different religions.

And energy always attract things, doesn’t matter if it is positive or negative. The universe works on the theory of Law of Attraction which has been proven by Quantum Physics. What you attract is what you get in life. Whenever we think about anything with a desire, it generates certain wave signals which the universe attracts and if the signal is very strong and consistent then it responds to you. But most of the time we think about all those things which we don’t want in our life, and we think about them with a strong desire and so the universe responds to it, then we always keep on cursing God for getting us into trouble. But we are unaware of the fact that it was our wish. Universe always responds to our desire as if it always says, “Your Wish is My Command.” The universe doesn’t know whether what we are asking for is good or bad, it just responds to our wish as its command. As I said, we often ask for those things that we don’t want to see our life, how we ask for them is the question. What we do is, whenever we don’t like something in our life, we often think about the same damn thing with a strong desire, and again the law of attraction works and we get into trouble.

So how this secret works?

To start with all we need to do is, ask ourselves what we really want in life. Our vision should always be clear, and then start making a list of the things we want in our life. When we are done making the list, we have to ask the universe for it. And we have to ask with a strong desire. Being positive is not the only thing we need to do here, we have to let our imagination work over it. Imagine how your life would be when you get what you want. Imagine yourself to be there; probably many of you would say that is not practical, we can’t stay in an imaginative world. To answer this question of yours, just do one thing. Rewind your life and think whatever you have or whatever obstacles came in your way wasn’t it the consequence of your own thought. Think about it and you will never question this. Now when you are done making a list, you think about it all the time with a strong desire to get it without being negative even for 0.001% then all you have to do now is wait. It takes time, it will never respond to your wishes then and there. Because to attain the equilibrium, it is necessary to take ample amount of time to respond to your wishes. Or else just think you are sitting in your room and you wish for a brand new car and it drops in right inside your room the moment you wished for it. Don’t you think your life will become quiet messy then. To attain a balance it takes time. So it will take time to respond to your wishes. But you have to practice it regularly, you should think about it all the time until the time you get it and even after that. Never let your thirst die.

Many of us succeed in asking for it but when we don’t get it after certain amount of time, we start becoming negative and we shatter our dream. So in that case it will never happen because “Your Wish Is My Command.”

Always be grateful to your life, to the people, to the things you have got. Be happy, be positive, let your imagination fly and ask for whatever you want in your life with a strong desire and one day the universe will conspire in helping you to achieve it. But always be patient, never complain from life because whatever we have is the consequence of our past deeds and thinking. Once we change our thinking we can achieve what we want. Don’t think about those things that you don’t want in your life. But it requires lots of patience and practice.

Always remember, “We are the creator and destroyer of our life.”



Friday, August 10, 2012

Love is in the air…


Love is in the air… and I don’t have to go far in search of it, coz it’s happening right in front of my eyes… we never thought that a prank would shape up into something like this… probably it’s not from both ends or who knows may be it is… but if somebody really cares to ask my opinion I would really want that whatever is happening should turn into something good, the way I want it to be… we live in a world where hardly anyone cares for us so much and when we find such people who actually cares for us in every possible ways then we tend to avoid them… or perhaps silently love them but never gather the courage to pour out whatever is inside our heart… the question here is why??? Coz we are scared what others would say… we end up thinking about each and every person of this world whose opinion is not even required and seldom have we thought about the person who deserves it… I know someone who loves someone a lot and when I say a lot that means he is really mad for her… he loves her silently and probably she knows everything about it but as every other girl she is also very diplomatic and she says that she is still confused… I don’t what is there to be confused... there can be only two things either she loves him or she don’t… but girl have this part as well… the confused state… hope I could understand their psychology… he is my friend and I know the depth of his love and I wish he gets what he really wants from life… when on one hand someone’s heart has been pierced into several pieces I find some good positive energy going around me which gives me immense happiness and satisfaction and I pray from my heart that whatever happened with me should never happen with any of those people who are around me… probably I am asking for too much but that’s really what I want now… today we just joked about one of our friend and we linked him up with a girl just for some amusement but the result that came out of our another prank was unbelievable… I think my friend has fallen for her or probably he wants to fall for her… and I am sure that if not today then probably after a week he will… people who are reading might even think that we are useless bunch of friends who don’t respect the thing called love… I don’t know how anyone feels about this… I am just writing what I am feeling about this situation… and I don’t think that we should be accused for playing any prank on our friends… Afterall it’s our birth right… and anyway the outcome is not in our hands… and who knows if things goes well for them then atleast we would feel proud that coz of our prank someone is happy and if it doesn’t work out then as I said the outcome is not in our hands… life is unpredictable you don’t know what is there on cards for you… whatever we have in our own hand is today that’s why it is called Present… it’s a gift to us from the lord and we have every right to play with it… do anything according to our wish coz no one knows what will happen tomorrow… so be happy… enjoy your today play with it in your own way… and anytime if things doesn’t work out the way we had imagined that just remember these words that life is too damn unpredictable and we can’t take even a single thing for granted… we may live or die that’s the only two things that’s gonna happen to anyone… but its upto us how we want to live or how we want to die… do you wanna regret that you missed those funs when you will be on your death bed… or you wanna be satisfied that you lived your life…

P.S – I apologize if I have offended anyone’s sentiments unknowingly; it’s just about my freak friends…

Saturday, August 4, 2012

Happy Friendship Day!!!


Friendship is a bond which anyone can’t explain in words, it is the most beautiful bond in this world one has, life without friends is plain and boring. They are someone who pulls our leg, all the time for anything and everything. Someone who always cheer us up even if we are totally screwed up!! We fight, we argue, we laugh and make others laugh… this is friendship. Unconditional like few other relations of this world...

But sometimes we insult the purest relation of this world, sometimes we tend to give more importance to love over friendship… we like someone, we fall in love, we come into some relationship and we end up messing up with friends. We don’t spend more time with friends now which usually we use to, but they never complain. We do anything and everything for our love relation seldom we do so much for friendship even though one day mostly people gets dumped by the same person whom we loved so much, for whom we avoided our friends, for whom we lied to our parents, for whom we fought with our siblings and when this cruel reality hits us hard then we realize the importance of these relations in our life and then we feel guilty. We go back to our friends though we can’t look at them directly in their eyes and say “I am sorry!!” Instead of whacking us hard they just give us a much needed hug and whisper into our ears “that’s okay yaar it happens in life this is not the end, check out that hot chick!!” So this is friendship, which has no conditions, no expectations, and no rules.

After our parents and siblings, its only friends who can understand our state better, and sometimes they are the only one who will understand our state, who will support us without giving it a thought the amount of risk involved in certain situations, they don’t give a damn to it, just jump along with us even if it’s a fire.

It all started in 1935, The United States Congress proclaimed the first Sunday of August as the National Friendship Day. Since then, celebration of National Friendship Day became an annual event. The noble idea of honoring the beautiful relationship of friendship caught on with the people and soon Friendship Day became a hugely popular festival. Following the popularity and success of Friendship Day in US, several other countries adopted the tradition of dedicating a day to friends. Today, Friendship Day is enthusiastically celebrated by several countries across the world including India. 

In 1997, the United Nations named Winnie - the Pooh as the world's Ambassador of Friendship.

Even the holy Bible states the importance of friendship. The Bible, the primary text of the western civilization, reflects upon friendship as the bond that forms the foundation to human faith, trust and companionship. Following verses from the bible aptly portray the importance of friends: 

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” 
Matthew 7:7

“Greater love hath no man than this that a man lay down his life for his friends.”
John 15:13-15

In the famous Hindu epic ‘Mahabharata’, Lord Krishna demonstrates the many colors of friendship - affection, romance, brotherhood, protection, guidance, intimacy and even teasing. Friendship is all about these and much more.

Friendship is the most holy relationship in this world, the purest one. They are the only one who gives us those golden memories that we can cherish lifelong. Some stay for life some for an instance but we always remember them all. We always play all those moments in the theatre of our mind and feel content about it. Sometimes we just laugh out loud even though when we are sitting alone when we start the flashback in the back of our head. Sometimes we do commit some mistakes and loose them forever, but they are always in our heart, even though we show everyone that we hate them to the core indirectly we still love them by remembering them all the time…



the one person i can tell my soul too 
Who can relate to me like no other 
Who I can laugh with to no extents, 
Who I can cry too when times are tough, 
Who can help me with the problems of my life. 
Never have you turned your back on me 
Or told me I wasn't good enough 
Or let me down 
I don't think you know what that means to me 
You have went through so much pain and you still have time 
For me. 
And I love you for listening even when inside YOU are dying 
And I look up to you because you are strong, 
and caring and beautiful. 
Even though you don't think you are. 
And I hope you know that I am always here 
To listen to you laugh and cry and help 
In all the ways that i can 
And I will try to be at least half the friend you are 
To me. 
I hope you know I would not be the person I am today, without you...

Wishing everyone happy friendship day!!!
Long live friendship…!!!

Saturday, April 14, 2012

A poor stranger…

In the search of a ray of light,

I screamed all over the place…
Eyes are not ready to adjust,

With this sudden changed nature…

I am blanketed with a feel of isolation,

And I am unqueued…

My best buddies found a new way,

Where I am never viewed…

Often I am left broken,
Often my soul cries,

Missing those pearl like days,
It’s hard to strive…

It gets onto my nerves sometimes,
And I am lost in anger often…

My close ones are no longer the same,
It seems everything has frozen…

Sometimes I am jealous with them,
When a new face becomes so familiar,

And a known face of mine is neglected,

 As a poor stranger…
If you expect love,

And your ears are gifted with harsh words,
It pains like hell…

Depression seals my lips,
And eyes resembles flood…

I never say to love me,
But my eyes do expect them…

I never say to scold me when I go wrong,
But my heart do expect them…

Every attempt to get out of this dejection surrenders,
Unfulfilled expectations often freshens my wounds,

Trying to smile in a hope that,
I will be blessed someday…

Thursday, March 15, 2012

I Lost Something in this Crowded World...


I don’t know why people have so much of issues. Okay, I agree to the fact that this is life which is way more complicated than we think it is but why people have this habit of adding tensions to their life. When they can make their life simpler, then why they are so much obsessed of making it a bit more complicated than actually it is.
A week before, my best friend broke our five years long friendship just because I couldn’t call her up when she asked me to. Actually it’s not her fault completely but the reason was too lame to end five years long friendship. I couldn’t call her then and whenever this thing happens, she always taunt me that I am not there when she needs me and now she thinks it’s better to be alone and all that crap.
Ok, I accept when we are in trouble we look out for our closest friend and I am honored that she asked for my help. But if it is not humanly possible for anyone to be there when you need them then what anyone can do about it. I was tired of her taunts and tantrums and so I lost my temper. And we ended up breaking our five years long friendship.
I must tell you one thing that I am way too patient but when I lose my temper then I always end up losing someone.
From past five years I never raised my voice or did anything that would lead to a great fight. But when I did that eventually I lost her. I regret it now, she was really close to me and I think I lost her.
But deep within my heart I have a second thought. If she really treats me as her closest friend then why can’t she overlook my flaws? Nobody is perfect; everything has its pros and cons. When I am there when she needs me then I am the best person for her and when I am not then I am the worst guy.
This is the human psychology. People never tend to find out the reason behind something instead they always have an opinion for you. And then they will ask you to change your attitude for them. If you do that then you escape the whole taunting & tantrum part but if you don’t then this whole taunting & tantrum part would suffocate your life with hell lots of miseries and no matter how emotionally strong you are you end up losing your temper one day and then people give you the tag that you are a fake person now. When they were pleased with you and your attitude then you were quite honest and true kind of person for them. But when you try to change the situation then you are a fake person.
I don’t understand this part of my life and as I always say this is life which is too unpredictable. When you think things are fine then all of a sudden the whole universe comes crashing down…

If you can’t overlook the flaws of your loved ones then you shouldn’t have an opinion for them…”
Long Live Friendship…!!
    Mayank…

Friday, March 2, 2012

For You Mom...


This poem is written by my friend Priyanka, and after reading this poem all i wanted to do was share it with everyone. After joining her college what all she went through is reflected by her words. How the ragging started and how everyone was waiting for their chance to knock her down.   
And when someone is in a big trouble, where you can't think of anyone then only one name comes in your mind "Mom".
So this poem is dedicated to all "Moms" of this wonderful world... 

"Crushed, exhausted and tired veins,
Wet pillow weaves the depth of sorrow,
When my eyes comes to rain,
My fate took me here,
And someone caring I can hardly find.
People are just enrolled with revenge and strategy,
Cooking up in their mind,
Every night my silly brain gets a new reason
And I get a jerk that is,
Tearing me apart and sucking the charm,
That my face had perked.
Spiky roads awaits for my arrival every day with a new blow,
As if they get plenty of pleasure tasting my innocent blood flow.
To get rid of these dejections,
I have prisoned my freedom and grace.
Three petals in the four walls make,
My life colorful to face,
Collecting the reasons to smile,
Many times I failed and was left scattered.
I am alone, miles away from you maa,
And my every beat misses the care that you nurtured.
I just wish to get your lap,
The moment I am isolated with craps,
Can’t you be always with me?
Can’t you take me out when I am trapped??"

                                                  -        By Priyanka